Blog — abuse OF men BY women

How to Make a Safety Plan if She is Violent

Domestic Violence against men is real. If your wife or girlfriend is angry and abusive, take it seriously. Just because you are a guy doesn't mean she can't hurt you. Make a safety plan.

If you are the friend or relative of a man in danger, pass on this information to him and help him make a plan to keep himself and his children safe.

8 Red Flags the Pregnancy is a Trap

Many a man has been snared by an announcement that a woman is pregnant with his child. How can you tell whether an “accidental” pregnancy is a baby trap or legit? How can you protect yourself from the pregnancy trap?

A pregnancy may be accidental-on-purpose. Like the one a woman was working on when her boyfriend walked in on her inseminating herself with semen from his used condom. (She had retrieved the condom out of the garbage can!)

I’m going to give you 8 pregnancy trap red flags and tell you how to protect yourself from being trapped by a pregnancy.

Hope Solo — The Domestic Violence Double Standard

It’s time we called a foul on women abusing men and stop looking the other way or condoning the abuse. This past year, there was a vociferous clamor to bring out the guillotine and cut off the career of any male athlete that was accused of any type of domestic violence. Where are these same domestic violence advocates when USA women’s soccer star goalie, Hope Solo, was arrested for beating up her sister and 17-year-old nephew.

12 Types of Lies and Deception

How can you tell if someone is lying? Even worse, how can you tell if someone you love is lying to you? First: learn that there is more than one way to lie. 

What is Spiritual Abuse in Marriage and Relationships?

Spiritual abuse in marriage or other romantic relationships is a form of partner abuse that is less well known than partner abuse forms like physical domestic violence, but spiritual abuse is deeply painful. Discover what it is and real-life examples.

Signs of a Verbally Abusive Wife or Girlfriend

Verbal abuse ranges from rageful to passive-aggressive to silent. It can be in-your-face bullying or performed in a more backdoor, subversive way. Verbally abusive women can achieve their goal to demean, control, or punish loudly or quietly.

Learn how to recognize it and what to do about it.