Quotes to Inspire You to Stop Toxic Perfectionism

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Quotes to Inspire You to Stop Toxic Perfectionism

 

You may think that perfectionism helps people get things done. It doesn't.

You might think that perfectionism helps people get things done well. It doesn't.

You might think that perfectionism helps people be better partners and parents. It doesn't.

The reality is that perfectionism is toxic to relationships and life. It wears out the perfectionistic person and people they are close to.

Perfectionists are chronically disappointed in themselves and others. They have trouble trying to do things because of being immobilized by fear of failure.

 

What's in This Post

 The Meaning of Perfectionism Quotes
 Brené Brown Quotes about Perfectionism
 Perfection is Unattainable Quotes
 Perfection is Toxic Quotes
 Perfection Gets in the Way of Success Quotes
 The Benefits of Letting Go of Perfectionism Quotes
 Embrace Your Imperfection Quotes
 Strive for Excellence, Not Perfection Quotes
 Resources to Help You Overcome Toxic Perfectionism

 

I get more into the psychology of perfectionism in this post: The Link Between Perfectionism, Anxiety and Depression.

 Becoming Calm: Silver Lining Reduce Anxiety and Increase Stress Resilience Workbook and Journal

 

The Meaning of Perfectionism Quotes

Perfectionism is "a combination of excessively high personal standards and overly critical self-evaluations." –Thomas Curran and Andrew Hill

"Perfectionism isn’t a behaviour. It’s a way of thinking about yourself." –Andrew Hill

“At its root, perfectionism isn’t really about a deep love of being meticulous. It’s about fear. Fear of making a mistake. Fear of disappointing others. Fear of failure. Fear of success.” –Michael Law

 

What is perfectionism? Perfectionism is about fear. Quote

 

 

Brené Brown Quotes about Perfectionism

“Perfectionism is not a way to avoid shame. Perfectionism is a form of shame.”  –Brené Brown

“Perfectionism is not the same thing has striving to be your best. Perfectionism is the belief that if we live perfect, look perfect, and act perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgement, and shame. It’s a shield. It’s a twenty-ton shield that we lug around thinking it will protect us when, in fact, it’s the thing that’s really preventing us from flight.”  –Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

 

Brene Brown perfectionism is a weight quote

 

“Understanding the difference between healthy striving and perfectionism is critical to laying down the shield and picking up your life. Research shows that perfectionism hampers success. In fact, it's often the path to depression, anxiety, addiction, and life paralysis.” –Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

“Healthy striving is self-focused: 'How can I improve?' Perfectionism is other-focused: 'What will they think?'  –Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

 

Perfection is Unattainable Quotes

“There is nothing perfect, no one can be perfect, and perfectionism is something you shouldn't chase.” –Shawn Crahan

No one is perfect… that's why pencils have erasers.

 

No one is perfect quote

 

“A person who never made a mistake, never tried anything new.” –Albert Einstein

“In the end, perfection is just a concept—an impossibility we use to torture ourselves and that contradicts nature.”  –Guillermo del Toro

Perfection is Toxic Quotes

"Perfectionists feel every bump in the road. They’re quite stress-sensitive." –Andrew Hill

"Perfectionism is internalized oppression."  –Gloria Steinem

“Perfectionism is self-abuse of the highest order.”  –Anne Wilson Schaef

“Perfectionism doesn't believe in practice shots. It doesn't believe in improvement. Perfectionism has never heard that anything worth doing is worth doing badlyand that if we allow ourselves to do something badly we might in time become quite good at it. Perfectionism measures our beginner's work against the finished work of masters. Perfectionism thrives on comparison and competition. It doesn't know how to say, ‘Good try,’ or ‘Job well done.’ The critic does not believe in creative glee—or any glee at all, for that matter.”  –Julia Cameron

 

Perfectionism definition quote

 

Perfection Gets in the Way of Success Quotes

“Perfectionism is a delusion that can rob one of a very successful, enriching life if not careful.”  –April Bryan

“I've learned how my own perfectionism can cripple me.” –Jennifer Nettles

“The most dangerous way we sabotage ourselves is by waiting for the perfect moment to begin. Nothing works perfectly the first time, or the first fifty times. Everything has a learning curve. The beginning is just that—a beginning. Surrender your desire to do it flawlessly on the first try. It's not possible. Learn to learn. Learn to fail. Learn to learn from failing. And begin today. Begin now. Stop waiting.” –Vironika Tugaleva

 

Failure is a good thing perfectionism quote

 

"Perfectionism magnifies your mistakes and minimizes your progress." –Jon Acuff

The Benefits of Letting Go of Perfectionism Quotes

“And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good.  –John Steinbeck

“Welcoming imperfection is the way to accomplish what perfectionism promises but never delivers. It gives us our best performance and genuine acceptance in the family of human—and by that I mean imperfect—beings.”  –Martha Beck

“If you wait for things to be perfect, you walk away with nothing. Just jump in and get started.”  –Jennifer Ritchie Payette

Flowers have to be buds before they can be in full bloom. We don't wait to enjoy them until they are in full bloom. We enjoy them through each stage. Enjoy yourself and the things that you do through each stage too. 

 

 

 

 

“If I waited for perfection, I would never write a word.”  –Margaret Atwood

“Good enough is good enough. Perfect will make you a big fat mess every time.”  –Rebecca Wells

“Perfectionism may look good in his shiny shoes, but he's a bit of an asshole and no one invites him to their pool parties.” –Ze Frank

 

Embrace Your Imperfection Quotes

“Embrace being perfectly imperfect. Learn from your mistakes and forgive yourself, you’ll be happier.”  –Roy Bennett

“Your darkest moments are not meant to be swept under the carpet, hidden from the world in the silent pursuit of perfection. The darkness you've overcome is your ticket into leadership. It's what you're meant to light up in the world.” – Vironika Tugaleva

“The fastest way to break the cycle of perfectionism and become a fearless mother is to give up the idea of doing it perfectly—indeed to embrace uncertainty and imperfection.”  –Arianna Huffington

“I really believe that it is honesty about our imperfect selves that makes everyone do better and be better.” Dan Pearce

 

Embrace your imperfection. Overcome perfectionism.

 

Strive for Excellence, Not Perfection Quotes

"Striving for excellence motivates you; Striving for perfection is demoralizing." – Harriet Braiker

“Excellence does not require perfection.” Henry James

Better to do something imperfectly than to do nothing flawlessly.

 

Resources to Help You Overcome Toxic Perfectionism

My anxiety workbook, Becoming Calm, has information, tips, and worksheets for overcoming perfectionism and lots more ways to reduce stress and increase happiness. 

 

Becoming Calm: Silver Lining Reduce Anxiety and Increase Stress Resilience Workbook and Journal

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  • Ann Silvers
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  • Ann Silvers
    Ann Silvers

    Hi Anon. I’m so glad that you found these quotes about perfectionism helpful. :)

  • Anon
    Anon

    These are so motivating! Thanks :)

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